Give a little, save a
little, spend a little.
We are created to be generous. Genesis 1:26 tells us that we
are created in God’s image, and our understanding of God is that God is loving
and generous. But, we also have a bent to selfishness. The disobedience in the
Garden of Eden caused humanity to struggle with sin. Pride and selfishness
interfere with our desire to be generous. We struggle with fear and scarcity, even
as we desire to be generous.
We live in a consumerist culture that leads many people to struggle
with debt. Generosity must be learned and practiced in a culture where money and
possessions have almost a mystical power. Our relationship with money and
possessions can interfere with our living into the call to be generous. That relationship
is often rooted into how money was treated in our family.
Was money a taboo subject when you were growing up? Did you
know how much money your parents made? Did you know how much your parents had?
Was money talked about at the dinner table? Did your parents
teach you skills in handling money? Were family conversations around money
filled with anxiety? Hopefulness? Gratitude? Anger?
I was humbled and honored to do serve at Dave Ohl’s funeral
recently. At the evening visitation time with the family, I had a chance to
visit with Dave’s grandchildren. I learned that Dave Ohl sent cards to his five
grandchildren all their lives. He sent cards for all occasions, even Halloween.
Dave picked out five specific cards that matched the individual personalities
of each of the five grandchildren.
In each card, Dave wrote each grandchild a personal note. He
also included money and ended each note with the admonition to, “give
a little; save a little; spend a little.” In his loving and generous
gifts to his grandchildren, Dave Ohl passed on to them a healthy attitude
toward money that focused first on giving.
What seeds Dave Ohl planted for nurturing generous
grandchildren!
You are created in God’s image. What will your family say was
the attitude about money and possessions in your household?
Rev. Jeff Taylor
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